r/TwoXChromosomes Jan 14 '22

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u/DConstructed Jan 14 '22 Silver Wholesome

Talk to a therapist. If you are in the state of mind where you blame yourself for someone else CHOKING you and threatening to stand on your neck and kill you you need professional help to pry that out of your mind.

The fact that the neighbors called the police was a blessing. Your boyfriend going to jail now is better than him going to prison later after he murdered you.

It doesn't matter if he's okay or even loving the rest of the time if he becomes deadly when angry.

I'm glad you're alive BIG HUG.