r/TwoXChromosomes Jan 14 '22

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u/EMLightcap Jan 14 '22 Silver Helpful Wholesome All-Seeing Upvote Bravo! Starstruck Bless Up Helpful (Pro)

Please leave. And read the book Why Does He Do That. You need to learn to recognize the early signs of abuse in a relationship so this doesn’t happen to you again. It doesn’t matter if he is a good guy - he still did this and can’t control himself. That makes him dangerous and he will not change. And for the love of all things - DO NOT HAVE A CHILD with this man. My brother who was 22 killed himself after years of witnessing domestic violence against my mother perpetrated by his father (my step father) and suffering emotional, verbal, and physical abuse from him too. The worst thing you can do is get involved with an abusive man. It starts generations of trauma.

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u/fervazesc Jan 14 '22

I am so sorry this happened.