Jan 14 '22
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The police gave you the opportunity to pack up your stuff and leave like you were planning to without danger. Take it.
I thought about replying to another comment thread instead of posting my own to get buried but I hope that 100 people separately telling you to leave while you can will have more impact.
Men who kill their partners aren't vile men all the time. Don't forget they managed to get in to that relationship in the first place. They often flip flop from extremely charming and romantic to raging and violent. They are also extremely manipulative. They'll blame others, gas light you, and make you feel guilty and responsible for their actions.
Your post reads like a list of all the red flags. You are beyond the warning signs now. The alarm bells are ringing. It's time to take action. Now.