r/TwoXChromosomes Jan 14 '22

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u/Wytetiger Jan 14 '22

I would also like to add “I tend to gaslight myself”… how much of that is him?

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u/amzism Jan 14 '22

The best gaslighters will gaslight you into thinking that you gaslight yourself.

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u/Thatcsibloke Jan 14 '22

Most of it I bet.

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u/GunNNife Jan 15 '22

I'm sure he gaslights her into thinking she's gaslighting herself.

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u/DebDestroyerTX Jan 14 '22

I do this too, thanks to a narcissistic father and resulting CPTSD.