While I have never been in OP’s situation, I have been in an emotionally abusive relationship and it was really eye opening to me. I mean, i know why I stayed as long as I did. He loved me (I believe, still) and I loved him. It was very hard to accept that the unloving things he did were not outweighed by the love I felt.
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u/uberDoward Jan 14 '22
This. Jesus fucking Christ I will never understand the "oh he's such a great guy this was just a misunderstanding" thought process.
NO. HE WILL KILL YOU.