r/TwoXChromosomes Jan 14 '22

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u/uberDoward Jan 14 '22

This. Jesus fucking Christ I will never understand the "oh he's such a great guy this was just a misunderstanding" thought process.

NO. HE WILL KILL YOU.

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u/DisastrousDoubt Jan 14 '22

While I have never been in OP’s situation, I have been in an emotionally abusive relationship and it was really eye opening to me. I mean, i know why I stayed as long as I did. He loved me (I believe, still) and I loved him. It was very hard to accept that the unloving things he did were not outweighed by the love I felt.

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u/blargiman Jan 14 '22

its infuriating how deep in denial they are I don't understand.