r/TwoXChromosomes Jan 14 '22

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u/PM_ME_HAPPY_MEMORIES Jan 14 '22 edited Jan 14 '22 Gold Helpful Wholesome Starry Helpful (Pro)

It has been well documented that an abusers next step after choking is murder. Your boyfriend is one very small step away from taking your life. Please don’t ever go back to him, and find a therapist to try and understand why you are struggling with this. You deserve so much better.

https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/strangulation-the-red-flag-of-domestic-violence-that-we-never-discuss/

https://www.mobileodt.com/blog/taking-your-breath-away-why-strangulation-in-domestic-violence-is-a-huge-red-flag/

https://amp.usatoday.com/amp/8426282002

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2573025/

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u/Ch4l1t0 Jan 14 '22

Not on purpose bc i really do feel he is a good guy

In no way shape or form in any universe that I know of is putting his foot on your neck something a "good guy" would do. Ever. For any reason at all.

I don't care how much you scratched him, if you insulted him and how much, or whatever else you did or didn't. NOTHING warrants his foot on your neck. Absolutely NOTHING.